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Begin by reading John 15:18-27

Have you ever been around coworkers when the conversation turns raunchy? I can think of a time that happened to me not too long ago at a social get-together. It was awkward to say the least, and it didn’t take me long to realize that I didn’t fit in.

I think if we were all honest with ourselves, we fear that we won’t fit in. We hate being the odd ball standing out. We hate the feeling of standing in the cafeteria with a tray in our hand, looking for a place to sit. We want to be accepted. We don’t like it if people talk about us behind our backs.

There is always a balance between relevance and conformity. When Jesus told us that we would be in the world, He is challenging us to be relevant. I’ve heard it said that a good preacher preaches with the Bible in one hand and a newspaper in the other. We don’t want to be so heavenly minded that we do no earthly good. However, the other extreme is worse. If all we want to do is be like everyone else, than we have no identity with Christ.

The temptation to conform to this world happens when we don’t know or we lose sight of our identity with Christ. When we forget about our heavenly citizenship, holding on to our earthly one becomes more prevalent. In John 15:18-19, Jesus told His disciples, “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.”

The truth is we should stand out. We may not need to tell anyone that we are a Christian, but the difference between us and everyone else should be obvious. Whereas the native tongue of the world may be sarcasm and criticism, our language should be encouragement and sincerity. If we are doing just that much, it won’t take long for people to notice a real difference. Consider it a great complement when someone says, “You seem a lot different than everyone else. What’s that about?”

Jesus tells us in Matthew 5 that we are both the light of the world and the salt of the earth. We ought to stick out. We ought to feel like we don’t belong. Because if the world loves us and we love being a part of the world, well then it would seem like we belonged to the world.

You may be someone who is struggling with trying to fit in. You want to fit in so bad, that you have found yourself conforming. If that’s the case, let me challenge you to not be afraid of not fitting in. You fit in. It’s just that you don’t fit in to this world. You’re not supposed to, because you fit in to God’s Kingdom.

If you’re one who stands out and may feel lonely, let me encourage you. If you maintain a positive and encouraging attitude, people will flock to you. This world is so abrasive that people are constantly looking for something uplifting. You will quickly become trustworthy – not only on a personal level but on a professional level as well.

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Begin by reading Psalm 23

Throughout Scripture, us people are often referred to as sheep. Why? Well, sheep tend to follow. In fact, sheep have been known to follow other sheep around trees, creating a non-stopping cycling circle. Or sheep have also been known to follow another sheep right off the side of a cliff. Suddenly being referred to as sheep doesn’t seem very flattering.

The truth is we can be like sheep. The adage “monkey see, monkey do” can sometimes apply to our lives. However, in Romans 12:2, Paul tells us to break the pattern – to stop the endless, mindless cycle of following someone around the tree.

You’ve no doubt heard someone say, “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.” Well, we as Christians should not follow this motto. There are patterns in this world; we can see them. There’s patterns of greed, lust, gluttony, self-pity, and the list goes on and on. We see the person who overworks, doesn’t spend time with his family, goes into debt by buying more than he can afford. When that keeps happening around us, that’s called a pattern. That’s sheep following sheep, and Paul says, “don’t follow what they’re doing.”

Sometimes it can be difficult to identify patterns that happen right in our own culture. The other day someone shared with me that often times people drown their lives with all sorts of activities like soccer practice and so forth and neglect spending time with other believers. The difficult thing about this is that it seems so common in our culture to run kids from one practice to another and swamp our lives with all sorts of activities, that it’s difficult for us to identify this as a possible pattern to avoid.

This is why it’s so important to be focused on the Lord. When we live lives of worship, we quickly begin to see the mind of Christ. Having the Spirit give us that insight helps us to identify harmful patterns that we should avoid. It may mean that we aren’t like other people or families. That’s okay. We’re not supposed to be. Those sheep don’t know who their following or where that path will lead. Our eyes are on our shepherd, and He gives us abundant life.

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